Fields of Hope.
Sunday, November 1, 2009

Work is fun... learned a lot

As there is a new addition to the team

Lewis! ( still thinking of a nickname for him )

What a Coincidence~ I bump into him at boat quay after "Chilling" @ Eski Bar to finsih Half a Bottle of liquor.

Went to Timbre afterwards as its a better place for us relax.

Left Timbre @ 1am but when to Clarke Quay to have fun~

A lot of people dressing like Witches, Vampires and Super Heroes.

So Far, Michael Jackson is the best.

Met my dear's friend at Clarke Quay, walked back to Boat Quay looking for a suitable Karaoke pub to relax.

But somehow everywhere was full... soo... " 24 hours de MacDonald's" HAHA~

Came home are around... 5am in the end.

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Sudden Thoughts

I have a lot of friends, but there is a lot of catogory friends. Some are just acquaintance, who just happen to pass by your life. Simply " Hi - Bye Friend ".

Some are normal friends... with all these friends when you need help ... some of them 赴汤蹈火 to help but some of them don't even bother.

Those the don't bother are mosly people who only enjoy being you when having fun. While you in trouble, thier actions and attitute will tell you only 2 words "Get Lost!"

From those that help ... there are 2 types, First is help with motive... Second is help without motive.

Needless to say of the Second one is what I name them as "Good Friends".

People do things with a reason... why do Good Friends help for free without demanding any return? Yes... they do need something in return... which is more valuable and priceless... Which is your trust and help in the future ... and most importantly your appreciation.

There is also "Close Friends". Out of those good friend there is surely 1 or 2 happen to know a lot about you and your secrets. Somehow its like a agreement to be very truthful to each other.

Definition of Heart to Heart talk(HTHT): Everyone speak everything out on how they feel about things. When everyone has a role of being speaker and listener.

HTHT is the process being a close friends... No close friend that is always the listener. It has to be 2 way. There is no point of HTHT if there is only one speaker.

When you did something wrong to the close friend, they are usually more angry with you than those who is normal friends.

Why? because they have more trust in you.

Once the agreement of being truthful ends... soon the bond between will slip off too.

You might not agree with what I said, I am just writing my experience. Friendship is hard to maintain, choose wisely which friend is worthy for you to fight for them. Don't lose any of them if they already prove their worthy.

Putting effort in worthless friends only gives disapointment.

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Ansophy 0.02

" Good Friends are the one who are willing to go through with you thick and thin, no matter tides"

Dysophy 0.01 (new)

" Treat it today is the last day of life of your family and friends, how would you treat them"
" If everyone think this way, there might be world peace "

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